I know we say it all the time, but it is true. Having open, honest (and regular) conversations with your kids is THE best way to help them build good digital habits when it comes to staying safe online. Technology in today’s world allows for 24/7 access anytime, anywhere so we need to make sure our children have some good, but basic digital habits to not only keep themselves, but others, safe online.
Next week is Wk 3 of Eduro Learning’s official Parenting in the Digital Age Series Launch and this week I’m sharing the good digital habits I think are really important for myself and my children to have in their life skills toolbox.
Always Be S.M.A.R.T
- Safe – Giving out personal information like our address, phone number, date of birth or passwords without having parental/guardian permission first is not smart.
- Meet – Meeting someone you only know from online is not smart, and you should never agree to do it without parent/guardian’s permission.
- Accept – Clicking on messages, emails, texts, pictures etc from people we don’t know or trust is not smart. It can open us up to problems like viruses and unwanted/nasty messages.
- Reliable – We need to understand that not everything out there is true, or reliable – checking information before you believe it is now a vital skill. It helps to talk about what we’re reading/finding online with an adult.
- Tell – Our children need to know that they can tell us, or another trusted adult when something happens online that makes us feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
Always THINK B4 U POST, CHAT or UPLOAD
- T – is it True?
- H – is it Helpful?
- I – is it Inspiring?
- N – is it Necessary?
- K – is it Kind?
And if it’s not, then don’t post it, chat it or upload it!
Always Be A Good Digital Citizen
Not just sometimes, not just some days, not just online but offline too! This is the foundation of being safe, kind, and smart. How we behave online is no different to how we behave offline. How we treat others online is no different to the expectation of how to treat others face to face. If you wouldn’t want your grandma to see it, then don’t share it with the rest of the world. This is the best habit your child(ren) could ever have.
Regular, honest and open conversations with our kids are so important. Habits aren’t made overnight and mistakes are going to happen. Having those difficult conversations that as parents we sometimes don’t like to do, must be had. Talking openly and honestly about our worries and our expectations really does help. Having something like a Family Media Agreement – which believe it or not starts with a conversation – can help too. And if you’re not sure how to start or what should be in a family media agreement, then this week’s PDF freebie: Conversation Starters + Family Media Agreements is the perfect resource for you! You’ll need to give us your email address, but I promise that we will NOT spam you or sell your email to anyone else and you can unsubscribe even after you download the freebie! Be quick though – it won’t be free for long!
What do you think? Are these digital habits good ones? Are there some more that we can add to this list? I’d love to hear your thoughts and what habits you think we can help our children (or students) build to help them stay safe online. Teacher friends, if parents are asking for ways to help keep their children safe online please feel free to share and/or add your thoughts in the comments too.
Oh and one more thing ….. our last freebie PDF: Ten Top Tips for Managing Screen Time is still available too! (You’ll need to give us your email again – but it won’t mean you’ll get double the emails from us, promise!)
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